New Kundalini Identity
Nov 01, 2025
Yes, we can want and wish to have our familiar identity.
We can want to cling to our own ego expectations of how we want to hear ourselves or see ourselves or to control how others see or hear us as well despite the changes that Kundalini brings.
Surrender is the key.
Not so easy when it is being insisted upon by grace when ego wants it a different way.
Careful to live the truth of Kundalini rather than to cave in to ego as the ego itself can lay a trap of its own acceptability for its chosen expression rather than that of the Kundalini expression.
Sexual Identity
One may feel as if the sexual identity is changing. This is a common misinterpretation of increased feminine or masculine levels of conscious energy. You are not your fantasies. Remember that Kundalini encompasses everything including the sexual body of expression. Keep your confidence in the identity of the person who began this journey even as its anatomy is changed.
Kundalini and Gender Identity
Kundalini will often help people to feel as if they are both genders at the same time. Its the sacred male and sacred female merging that does this. Its all good and one is still typically the gender that the body was born into.
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So now you must give yourself, your past present and future self. You must give everything that pertains to you to grace. Every part of your body every part of your mind every feeling and emotion that you have every aspect of your identity and your psychology belongs to grace but you must give it. And do it all the time. As much as you can consciously do.
Do not create any kind of boundary or boundaries for Kundalini in what it can do for you and to you. Total openness and total surrender and total trust.
-Chrism Kundalini