To Love Without Attachment

Definition of love
1 a (1) : strong affection for another arising out of kinship or personal ties maternal love for a child (2) : attraction based on sexual desire : affection and tenderness felt by lovers

Brotherly or sisterly concern for others, a beloved person, unselfish, loyal and benevolent concern for the good of another.
A person's adoration of God. -Merriam Websters dictionary

Within the Kundalini we must be willing and able to expand our definitions of love. We must embrace our redefinition of what our previously held concepts of love would be. Our love of Kundalini and its manifestations upon us will often be focused on the unconditional aspect of the loving of all creation.

It is here within such divine vitality we are able to bring about an expansion of love, within the pathways of a love that are not based on desire but rather based upon what the Kundalini is offering us inside of the diminishing reliance on expectations. A beginning of the incorporation of a love that is truly substantial beyond what the mundane expectations and concepts would allow. Such a love is based in the divine attitudes of trust.

Trusting is as much of a love based expression as the tender kisses shared by a newly formed couple. When our trust is expanded by Kundalini we are guided to overcome any fear of loss. We are given such a strong level of strength from the Kundalini that our thoughts are no longer based in the fear of loss and want of gain but rather are placed in the enjoyment of the eternal moment.

We surrender our need to control the temporal events of our lives and open into the infinitude of what grace is expanding us into. A shared merging of the eyes as a form of trataka for instance. A small touch or an effortless action of deep consideration. A merging into the doorways of the infinite through the communications of extreme subtle gestures as of a psychic nature or an emotional empathy based on the dissolution of self into the beloved. Serving them first always.

A deep connection of "knowing" that surpasses any spoken word. These may seem simple and inconsequential when observed through the lens of the bombastic expressions of passionate love in its feverish pitch of lovemaking and developments of flesh harmonies as in some of the more mundane expressions but this is where we are often led. When we expand we are are given into the timeless eternity of the subtle fields of loving expression.

Intimacy is changed. We no longer have the obvious expectations of orgasm or the passion of hedonistic tendencies of our socially accepted love based projections.
We have a very deep trust of grace and that grace allows us a view of the never ending aspects of life and the love that causes life to exist. Love as its own self aware consciousness.

As mentioned before we fear no loss so death has not the hold over us that it once had as we begin to see and interact within the many folds of dimensional existence. Our love transcends the physical fields of engagement and opens into the non physical expressions of the divine merge. This is supposing that both within the relationship are trusting and opening to and through the the Kundalini merge.

We begin to understand that attachment as in the requirement of physical presence or the needs of recognition or the expectations of our own special love based communications will begin to transform into a knowing that is truly substantial in its definite physical perceptive existence and also in the non physical components of its reflection within the heavenly fields. "As above so below and as below so above."

We are no longer attached in the mundane understandings and expressions of what attachment means at this point. We have expanded beyond these five sense modalities of loving expression. Our mortality is no longer a factor. Our presence is now trans geographic and stationary at the same time, in the here and now and witnessed within the temporal reflections of time. All at the same time. We know the truth of the old adage saying:
"If you love them then let them go." Because love is not an ownership of another person. It is, within the Kundalini, a merging of bodies, of consciousness, and of grace. Extreme experience of another beyond the flesh.

When this merge is embraced we become "at one" with all. This includes our lover, wife, husband, girlfriend, boy friend, mother, father, brothers and sisters and all of humanity and with all life and its expression upon this world and others. Attachment is replaced by oneness. Expectation is replaced by knowingness. Love becomes the inner and outer main expression of life. -Chrism Kundalini